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entry 64


The phase from the movement, you have the realization about what you really want to achieve till the moment you either achieve it or fight till the last opportunity is the character-building one. I’m not an authority to guide you on how to achieve your aims and objectives. As I myself haven’t done any wonders which could motivate you or inspire you. But I can be your hustling companion to whom you could look and say if he is still going on then what keeps me. Life is a complex as there are no simple rules to succeed and above all what might have worked for others, might not do a thing for you. I never have believed in pre-determined destiny and luck and this belief of mine has further solidified with consistent failures. Free will is the very essence of our existence and that is what makes our race to act supreme, at least on this planet and in its periphery too. But still, a meticulous being could tell that hard work, passion, perseverance is all fine but there is some randomness and arbitrariness working in the background. The disenchantment of having being exposed to the fact that this whole existence is a lie that in the end, nothing matters is the real salvation. Once one has learned this one realizes that many people have a false sense of importance that they associate with themselves. Both the philosophers, from occident and orient, have expressed this revelation since ancient times with fancy words and thesis.

And you know what the real deal-maker is, the very fact of knowing that all the achievements, contributions and creations will not be of any real value and still possessing the passion to keep going and lead an effective existence. The best thing is that you are not driven by a mindset of being rewarded for humane contribution rather you do it as you believe and support that cause. Irrespective of any expectations for this life or afterlife or the next life, you commit yourself to service.

As per present writer, fickle minds have devised determinism to overshadow their failure and for maintenance of status quo, as according to primitivity change is something which has been associated with destruction. But what do they really fear: loss of comfort zone, the fear of loss of hegemony and the establishment of new civil order. Behind power, there is a very extreme sense of fear and insecurity and for its preservation biases and prejudices are exploited. The curve of disenchantment is flattened by every possible means by the professional ruling class. The more the society lives in denial, the more credibility they enjoy. Society fears the awakened minds, as the perpetuation of their thoughts means trembling of existing constructs.

  With this the writer is not completely discarding the fact of mutualism, till the day this world is inhabited by single being there always going to be a composite influencing each other. So keep fighting for something that you firmly believe-in till the last because success is counted sweetest by those who succeed after multiple tries (Little modification to Emily Dickinson’s classic phrase). Have faith in yourself and in ideas you believe in, don’t let them change overnight. Let the process provide wholesome improvement rather than opting superficial touchup to please others.

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