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Sufferings (Part-1)

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30/12/2017

The most conspicuous lesson that life has taught me till my 20 years 11 month 30 days of Roller Coaster life is that " suffering alone does not make you more brave and sharing them does not constitute to cowardice". Another thing about life is the difference between living and suffering. We humans as being a responsible beings tries to handle problem by our own so as to minimise the ill effect that that difficulty might cause. But during those phases of life we tend to forget unknowingly that no matter how much harder we try to keep them away their lives gonna affected indirectly in some way or another. That act might be seen by others as act of over smartness but the person who is facing or I would intend to say suffering knows better than any other that he is just trying to keep close ones stable. The beauty of life is not only its happiness but includes down rides too . Sufferings are privileges when they get the best out of a person and detrimental when they completely breaks one. Being optimistic is good thing but how long could you maintain the self motivating optimistic level, matters the most as it fluctuates often.

Almost everything in this cosmos requires support for functioning, nothing can sustain by its own. It does not matter how strong a person is or portray self to be, there is definitely a threshold which when surpassed can cause sesmic occurances. We humans have a very strong fighting spirit and I am not at all connecting strings to the violence but the epochs old fighting back soul no matter how hard the gordian Knot being tied.

Everything feels soothing while on board the ship of life and all of sudden that gentle Breeze which was causing chilling orgasmic sensations at the hair follicles changes to vein puncturing strom. No matter how much precautionary measures one has taken or free drills being conducted, it do catch a person by surprise. The life which one's felt  as a gift of god starts seeming as breeding ground of sufferings. Two options awaits to shape the destiny. Either hid your close ones beneath the deck thinking that they gonna be safe from rising havoc (un/in)tentionally forgetting that they still gonna go through the rampant swinging of the ship and being captain, holding the steering wheel of the ship in hope that you will once again gonna channel the ship towards calm waters OR let the close ones onboard to help you perform different task and still sailing towards doldrums. Sharing difficulties can proportionally ease the whole process. It is great saying that after every dusk there will be dawn but why to forget the dusk it gonna follow. Be prepared for both. Never miss to enjoy the slightest of the happiness and also not become fragile when misfortune knocks. See towards it as an opportunity of growth, to become more mature and emerge alot stronger than the earlier blow so that the wind that one seemed difficult to navigate, in future just causes damage to your styled hairs which you remake by just moving fingures through them like you do  after a joyous journey over a bike.

- #RAJJEकराखड़DE

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