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Every time when one asks other the ways to abolish some problematic things harming society. The first thing other will say that it can be done by changing mentality. Seen and heard a lot of debates and discussions. Every one tells the same. And if one further put forward a question about how to change the mentality. They gonna say ," education". Okey not education but moral education. Now the ones are still not satisfied. As they are of the opinion that moral values can't be taught via books, they can only be passed from parents to children. Now WTH parents got to do here. Why the Hell they don't . They are the one who spend a lot of time with them while the whole process of understanding this society. They are the ones telling them do's and don'ts, right & wrong, good & bad, ofcourse differences b/w them, says the majority of others. The ones agrees with this valid point to certain extent. As no father educate his child to rape , no mother teach her child to earn by selling flesh. But parents can't be totally blamed. The offsprings got their piece of mind too as no one spend whole life obeying each order of parents. No one is taking all blame. The "blame game" has started, just shifting from the one to the others.

That is only possible as if no one is fully responsible, a genius mind says. The ones now thinks that if no one is fully then might be everyone got their share in the crap. Damn genius, the others applaud the ones. After a long argument, both the analysers atlast agrees with the saying that everyone got their share in the blame. The ones agrees but they are unhappy with the usage of the word one in everyone, they demands for using every other instead of everyone . This demand hurts very deeply the true feeling of the others. They made a valid point by saying that everyother doesn't sound well.
After doing lots of hunger strikes , candle dinners ( oh!😋 Sorry , not dinner its march. Amateur writer Apologizes for mistake)and every possible way of protesting to correct the word in the sentence on which both factions agrees disagreeably. They filled a litigation in the court. No one now cares about abolishing the crap, as both are concentrating massively over the battle of Honor. The ones and the others are stealthy happy as they are getting publicity without hiring a PR and thinks that if they win they will form a political party which will fight against the odds who are destroying this laniakea.
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In the fight of ones and others , the real human being are failing to understand, which side they stand with. Root cause implies that if we cure the root whole plant gonna flourish with ecstasy. It you visualise whole world as a huge tree, then we humans serve as roots . We should stop blaming others. People must understand that if they abolish bad qualities inside, they are curing not just self but the whole big world tree. That incidence will inspire others . Once in a class , an English teacher asked while teaching lesson to raise hand who thinks that all the curses of humanity would vanish one day. Few raised  their hand . The teacher appreciated their idealistic optimism but advised them to have pragmatic approach and be realistic.

The biggest obstacle in this process of creating a utopian society is the difference between right and wrong. We humans tend to classify things into right and wrong according to own delight. All the things which one do whether good or bad are right, remaining quota of bad things are wrong. A small e.g. - if a person is religiously vegetarian then all the non- veggies and alcoholic are committing sin. If a person eats non-veg but abstains from drinking then person who drinks is bad as alcohol is injurious to health. And if a person eats and drinks too then the person who is addictive is bad. And for addicted person every thing is alright in this world. 
I am now really tired of the facts of right and wrong. Learnt from my experience that never try to change other till you become capable, just try to change yourself for betterment. Cange is a wonderful when it accompanies improvement. If you are killing all the Temptation inside and rising fast thats the time when you gonna discover the potential wonders of life. Many of us thinks that happiness is a state where there are no worries, have all desirable things in possession and every comfort is in approach but that's not happiness. Behind every bad deed there is always a goal of achieving happiness. I don't care for others as no one care for me is a very narrow mindset. If you start caring for others , time will showcase that there exist others too who care for you selflessly. Necer try to discover the devil in you but i assure you that when you start your journey to search an angel inside, then in that itinerary you will find many devils. How long will you live for yourself as there is no fun in that living. Live for others and the adventure that you will meet will be worth experiencing.
        
    [All I want is to inspire]

  -  #RAJJEकराखड़DE

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